3 Ways to Building Self-Esteem in your Twenties
Self-love, confidence, self-worth, self-esteem are core values every girl needs transitioning into womanhood. The 20th Century has sadly changed the way we view these values. People are dehumanizing the value of working on self and honestly, it needs to stop!
Self-esteem is all about loving your self. It’s okay to be selfish when you’re thinking of yourself.
Self-esteem = How much we like ourselves
3 Ways to Build Self Esteem:
LOVING YOURSELF MORE!
1. Do something you’re naturally good at
What are you naturally good at or enjoy doing? Regularly doing things that you are good at reinforces your belief in your abilities and strengths. Maybe you're naturally good at organizing parties. Your friends can always count on you to deliver and it's natural for you. Find that thing that's easy for you.
2. Have goals and create a plan
Having a goal alone won’t do much if you don’t have a plan to execute it. One of the biggest reasons people get lazy is because they don’t have a plan to achieve their goals. They don’t know what the next step is and start to wander off randomly. If you don’t know where you’re going, how will you ever get there. Write it out. It works, trust.
3. Don’t. I repeat… Don’t compare yourself with others
Stop comparing yourself to other people. Low-self esteem stems from the feeling of being inferior. Don’t worry about what your friends are doing. Don’t get frustrated if it’s taking longer to complete a goal. You never know what a person went through to get to where they are. Don’t judge and definitely don’t try to compete. Compete against yourself.
Those are a couple tips we're sharing for building self-esteem. It’s normal to have emotions of feeling down but don’t stay there. Get back motivated and build your confidence. Share a time you felt down and how did you overcame it?
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